Saturday, August 29
Write tomorrow's first step
Most mornings get lost because nobody decided anything the night before.
Key takeaways
- Pick one task, not five, and write it down
- Set out the thing you'll need first
- Close the laptop once the step is written
TL;DR
Most mornings get lost because nobody decided anything the night before. Write one next step down before sleep and the day starts already moving.
Decide it the night before
You know the drill. You wake up, reach for the phone, scroll for eleven minutes, then spend the first hour of a perfectly good day figuring out what the day is for. By then the energy's gone and the easy stuff has eaten the hard stuff.
Stop negotiating at dawn
Morning you is not a strategist. Morning you is a guy looking for the path of least resistance, and he will find it. He'll answer email instead of writing the proposal. He'll clean the kitchen instead of making the call. Every decision you leave for the morning gets decided by whoever is least awake. So take the decision away from him. Last thing before bed, on paper, one line: the first step. Not the goal. Not the project. The step. Open the file. Call the guy. Lace the shoes and get out the door.
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Keep it to one line
A list of nine things is a way of avoiding the one thing. You've done it. It feels productive and costs you nothing. One line is harder because one line commits you. Write it small and specific enough that a tired man can do it without thinking. "Email Dave the quote by 9" beats "work on business." Then put the pen down and go to sleep. The plan isn't the work. Don't spend an hour decorating it.
Today
Tonight before you get in bed, write one sentence naming tomorrow's first step and leave it where you'll see it.
Go deeper
There's a kind of man who plans because he's terrified. Every hour mapped, because if he stops moving the whole thing might fall apart and it'd be his fault. That's not planning. That's carrying a weight nobody gave you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. Matthew 6:34 Notice what that doesn't say. It doesn't say drift. It says you don't have to secure tomorrow, you only have to meet it. You're already accounted for. So the plan gets lighter. One step, written down, so the morning is clear, not so your standing is safe. Your standing was never on the line.
Remember Yesterday
Make the call yourself. Make three small decisions out loud today without asking what anyone else prefers first.
Remember Lasterday
Calm down without a screen. Tonight, charge your phone in a different room than the one you sleep in.
Keep exploring
Put the phone down first. Leave your phone across the room tonight and do one deliberate thing before you touch it in the morning.
Tomorrow's memo, every morning
One a day. No noise.
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